Q & A: Masturbation & the Female Orgasm. {Adult} — Rachel Astarte

By Ikenga Chronicles January 15, 2017

Q & A: Masturbation & the Female Orgasm. {Adult} — Rachel Astarte

Many years ago, I worked as a friendly cyberhood sex and intimacy consultant for a few online singles sites.

I took questions of all kinds, regardless of how obscure, kinky or taboo they might be. No judgments. I was happily surprised to see that many lovers—male and female alike—were quite concerned about the topic of women’s pleasure. More specifically, masturbation and orgasm.

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Although I received a great number of questions about female orgasms, I’m sharing here the top three. Not because I think they are the most relevant questions one could ask about the deliciously capricious phenomenon that is woman’s sexual climax, but because they were often the most asked. And by that logic, that put them at the forefront of many lovers’ minds.

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I hope you’ll contribute to the conversation by adding your comments and questions in the feedback section below. Share the love!

I have never achieved orgasm with a man. Should I be concerned about a medical issue? Or would it be solely a personal issue with performance?

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Not achieving orgasm with a partner is more common than most people realize. Sex is a very intimate act that can leave many of us feeling vulnerable and unable to relax fully enough to let go in pleasure.

One of the best ways to overcome this is to learn to make love to yourself. If you can, have orgasms alone through masturbation. This will also eliminate your concern about needing medical attention. (If there is any pain, see your gynecologist as soon as possible.)

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By taking the time to learn your own body and what it needs in order to receive pleasure, you will be able to better to guide your lover toward the best ways to please you.

How do I know if my wife is masturbating? She seems to prefer…

READ MORE: http://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/04/q-a-masturbation-the-female-orgasm-adult/

Rachel Astarte is a transformational coach, professional voice-over artist, shamanic practitioner, and peace activist. She is currently completing a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy toward New York State licensure. She is the author of Celebrating Solitude: How to Discover and Honor Your Highest Self. Rachel online: Healing Arts New York: Transformational coaching for individuals and couples Mind Massage: The body massage for your brain Facebook communities: Let’s Get Intimate Healing Arts New York Mind Massage

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