I Hate Men!

By Ikenga Chronicles August 26, 2018

I Hate Men!

–Sola Sorinolu,

I had been in two previous relationships before I met my wife. I didn’t break off either of those relationships, the ladies did. The first went out of town for a while and met someone she felt was a better fit. The second couldn’t wait for me to be fully ready for marriage.Then I met the ‘gift’ who is now my wife, and the pains of those two previous relationships were completely wiped off!

When the Israelites rebelled in the wilderness, God sent fiery serpents among them to ‘bite’ them to their senses. When He was to heal them, it was a symbol of the same fiery serpent that He used(Ref: Num.21:4-9).

Why I Fear Those Who Fear God

This is my point: Whatever hurts you is what will heal you. If a man hurts you, it is another man that God will raise to heal you. If you were badly treated and maligned at a job, it is another job that God will use to restore your dignity. It is an established scriptural principle.

“Therefore, as through one man’s offence judgement came to all men…even so through one Man’s righteous act the free gift came to all men…” Rom.5:18.

Do not close the door of your heart and mind to relationships because you’ve been ‘bitten’ in the past. If you do, you may miss out on the opportunity for your ‘healer’.


  • Sola Sorinolu is a Christian educator, writer and speaker who believes strongly in the pragmatic solutions the Scripture proffers to life, family, business and career challenges. He is passionate about the extension of Christ’s influence on earth and in hearts. He can be reached through sorinolusola@gmail.com


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